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#5. Practical ways to encourage a culture of unplugging and recharging.

Hello and happy second official day of summer!
In the immortal words of DJ Jazzy Jeff and The Fresh Prince, itâs time to sit back and unwindâŠ
âŠor is it?
We think everyone deserves some summer downtime, but depending on your companyâs culture, taking time off could feel as welcome as a frosty popsicle on a hot day or as miserable as too much chlorine in your eyes. So how do you ensure a company approach to PTO thatâs more sunshine and less sunburn? Letâs get into it...
To empowering needed rest,
Jill
Reflect On This
Think back to your last planned OOO time...
Did you feel empowered to fully disconnect?
Did you return to work feeling more rested, refreshed, or energized than before?
How do you want your team to feel after time away from work?
A Company Culture In Support of Rest
Picture this: you finally take some vacation days and arrive at your first getaway in ages. You confirm tomorrowâs plans, order in a lovely meal, and run a hot bubble bath. You slink in, a fizzy drink in one hand and a book youâve been dying to read in the other. Two minutes into your intended escape from reality, a text notification pops up:
âHey. I know youâre on your trip but weâre stuck on something here - got 10 minutes?â
One quick towel-off and 30 minutes of back-and-forth with your teammates later, the bathwaterâs lukewarm, the bubbles in the tub and in your drink have gone flat, and instead of enjoying your downtime, you rage-draft (and promptly delete) a LinkedIn post about the importance of work-life boundaries, before grumbling off to bed.
So much for your first night of vacation, huh?

Remember a few weeks ago when we discussed how culture and perks arenât one and the same? Nowhere does this ring more blatantly true than in your companyâs policy and cultural approach to paid time off. Truly, when it comes to teammates using their vacation time, the policy here is only as strong as the cultural expectations and examples that surround it.
What do I mean by this? Letâs take the example of the almighty Unlimited PTO benefit. On its face, itâs incredible (who doesnât want unlimited time off?!). But no amount of unlimited time off is going to feel restful, restorative, and re-energizing if itâs treated like the Sad Bathtime scenario I painted above. I for one would rather take 10-15 fully disconnected days off a year than twice as many where I canât unwind without interruption.
No matter your workplaceâs vacation policy, there are a few key places to look to gauge the impact your culture has on employee adoption:
Clarity of leadershipâs example: Teams look to leadershipâs example in appropriate communication, performance expectations, collaboration, and more. So imagine the potential for confusion when a leader espouses the benefits of time off, only to spend their own vacation time replying to emails and Slack conversations. Expect that your teammates will trust whatâs communicated less and less if their leadershipâs behavior telegraphs a different expectation. â
âHow to fix it? Get aligned! Remind your team leadership that their stewardship of culture and benefits holds power, and that acting in defiance of stated expectations around things like vacation time will erode trust in the intended design of the benefit. Trust me, they could probably use the reminder to disconnect, too!
Capacity constraints: I get it - thereâs too much to do and not enough hours in the day to get it done. But strained capacity has a sneaky byproduct beyond on-job stress; it dampens vacation adoption. Think about it - if you know youâll return to a pile of work even more unsurmountable than the one you face every day, does the prospect of a vacation feel enjoyable, or just more stressful?
How to fix it? Ask! Survey your team to learn more about how much teammates take vacation, what the sentiment around time off is, and why teams are or arenât taking time away. Look into feedback team by team and see where you can act. When in doubt, start with documentation. As Podge Thomas shared in a recent episode of the Want To Work There podcast, nothing empowers people to truly step away like being able to easily hand over responsibilities while youâre out.
Permission, permission, permission: Repeated, unsolicited, authentically-granted permission is one of the best tools at your disposal for communicating and influencing cultural norms. Proactively reiterating stated policy information doesnât just clarify information to your teams, it signals to them that the topic is important enough to remain consistently top of mind, and worth addressing before anyone has to ask.
How to fix it? Tell âem! Scan recent all-company communications; do any of them mention, celebrate, or promote your companyâs vacation policy? If they donât, make a commitment to send out time-off nudges at least once per quarter. Looking for a starting script? Borrow mine!
âI canât believe itâs already June. With the halfway mark for this year approaching, I want to remind everyone here of our vacation policy, which states that employees are entitled to [XYZ details of your company policy]. None of us can do or feel our best at work if we donât disconnect once in a while, so consider this a nudge to look to the second half of the year and schedule some time to rest, recharge, and re-energize.â
And hey, while Iâve got you here, remember that this applies to you, too! If youâve got some vacation time - accrued, unlimited, whatever - burning a hole in your pocket, I challenge you to set that positive example and schedule a couple days before the end of next week. Your own fizzy drink awaits!
Your Turn
Brush off your teen magazine and early-aughts online quiz skills, because weâre trying something a little different today: a quick assessment to learn your vacation M.O. Let's go!
1. How often do you respond in email or Slack/messages while youâre on PTO?
a. At least once a day; I donât want things to fall behind.
b. I look a few times, but I donât respond; I donât want to set that example for my team.
c. Oh gosh, never - itâs vacation!
2. Which out of office auto-responder for a week of vacation feels most like you?
a. "Please note that my email response may be slightly delayed; you can expect to hear from me within 24 hours.â
b. âIâm largely away from my computer this week; please expect to hear back from me within a few days.â
c. âIâm enjoying some rest and relaxation this week; I look forward to replying to your message when I return on Monday.â
3. Scrolling poolside, you find a great article about something you know your boss is working hard on. You:
a. Log in and Slack it their way with the message, âperfect for what we were talking about; let me know if you want to hop on a quick call.â
b. Send a quick email with the link and, âsaw this - thought of you!â
c. Forward the link to your work email; youâll share it when youâre back.
4. Which book are you packing for your vacation?
a. A book?! I need this time to catch up on newsletters and Fast Company.
b. Probably something self-help or personal development focused
c. My fav sci-fi author finally released the latest in their series and Iâm ON IT.
5. Your hotel lobby is hoppinâ. Turns out the local chapter of a networking group in your field is hosting happy hour before an all-day conference tomorrow. You:
a. Cancel tomorrowâs brunch and storm the welcome desk - thereâs got to be a way to join last minute
b. Grab a free drink and mingle for an hour - who knows who youâll meet?
c. Throw a brochure in your bag on the way up to your room; thisâll be perfect to look into once youâre back home
Pencils down - letâs see how you did! If you answeredâŠ
Mostly aâs: Disconnecting is tough for you. Next time you have time off coming up, try sharing a âwhat ifâ doc with your team. Outline how to account for any high-urgency scenarios that may crop up, which typically fall to you to respond to. Knowing your team is equipped to handle curveballs can make it easier to own your time away.
Mostly bâs: Youâve got some good time off boundaries, but canât resist the urge to optimize for your job, even when youâre meant to be recharging. Next time youâre off for a few days, challenge yourself to a full dayâs full disconnect (no work phone or logged in devices, no email, no business chit chat, nada) and see how you feel.
Mostly câs: You own your time away, appreciate what PTO is meant to offer, and trust that your team is capable of handling any surprises that crop up. Consider sharing the love! Do a quick audit to see when everyone on your team last took a couple days off, and send a friendly nudge to put some R&R on the books before monthâs end.
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Keep celebrating: As June draws to a close next week, be sure to commit some time to planning how your company will continue to celebrate pride all year long with this guidance from Bloom Season.
